Over the past few months I have been pondering many things about love and its place and purpose in my life. I’ve gone back over all the lessons I’ve learned personally and through my family and friends, I’ve replayed everything I’ve ever read about love from nursery rhymes as a child to Act like a lady, Think like a man most recently, but more importantly I began to think about God and the things that his word says about Love.
I decided on today’s blog this morning as I was pondering what I would ask “Love” if I had the opportunity to interview it…so I surveyed some of my closest friends, Text buddies, co-workers, BFF, boo, Tweeps, and FB Fam to see what questions were the most burning and I got some surprising questions…and the answers magically appeared to me. I think that is the ultimate answer to any question, seek God and he will give you all understanding!
At any rate, here is my interview with love…***disclaimer***Remember, this is just MY INTERPRETATION of my/the situation and the answers that I received when pondering these questions!!!!!!
Me: I woke up this morning and decided that I needed to make some amends in my life, I wondered where would be the best place to start and you (love) were the first thing that came to mind.
Love: Really?!?
Me: Indeed! I decided that it would prove better for me to seek some answers directly from the source, then to continue on my path searching for answers from self, which obviously hasn’t been working for me.
Love: Well, I wouldn’t go as far as to say that I am not working for you, but go ahead…let me see if I can assist you.
Me: I surveyed some of my closest friends, many of whom I am sure you know very well, and based on some of their questions and my own I would like to begin by saying “Thank you.” One of my closest friends and a major reason for some of my reflection decided that he wouldn’t ask you anything, that he would only thank you. At first, I was a little baffled by his response, I thought to myself that he must have a burning question to ask you, but after a simple moment of reflection, I realized that he was simply acknowledging and accepting everything that you’ve done this far.
Love: You’re welcome!
Me: Ok, so why can’t I help but to feel you?
Love: I am a major part of everyone’s life, or at least I should be. Those that know me come to understand that without me (love) there is nothing. 1st Corinthians chapter 13 Vs 1-3 1If I speak in the tongues[a] of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames,[b] but have not love, I gain nothing.
Me: I get it, love is necessary no matter how bad it hurts, what doesn’t kill us only makes us stronger, so…Why do you hide yourself from those seeking you? Why are you so hard to find?
Love: I don’t hide myself from those seeking me and I am not hard to find at all. At times you chose not to see me for your own selfish reasons; you put man or woman before me and left me to the back, so it isn’t that I am or ever will be hiding from you, but more that you are choosing either not to seek me.
Me: Ok, so…one of my friends wanted to know why you are so terrible and so good at the same time? Or why do you hurt so bad, when you are supposed to be so good?
Love: Well to be honest with you, good and bad co-exist in everything including love. There are going to be good days and there will be bad days. It is my hope that the good will out weigh the bad from time to time, or at least you will begin to understand and appreciate the good days when they come because you learned a lesson from the bad days. There is no Testimony without a TEST!
Me: Makes a lot more sense to me now… people often refer to you (love) as being blind, can you answer or clear up the mystery as to why you are “blind?”
Love: That’s easy…The bible describes me as and I quote (NIV) “ 4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”
I use my blinders so I can stay focused at the task at hand, even if you don’t know what I am doing, I do!
Me: WOW…it is so true that everything we need to live is in the Bible. Ok, well since you are knocking these out so easily, a friend of mine asked “when will I know when I have found the one?/How do you know when it is real?”
Love: To that friend and all the others pondering that question, don’t seek “the one” let me bring them to you. When I bring them to you there will be nothing you can do to get rid of them. What is for you, is for you!
Me: Ok, last question, and I think this is one that many wonder, but are scared to ask, Will you stay forever?
Love: Where would I possibly be going? I have a job to do and that is spread myself. Again, The Bible says…” 8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. 12Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. 13And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1st Corinthians Chapter 13 vs 8-13
Ultimately, I want you to understand that God is love! When you love as God loves you, I (love) will love you back. Check out and read Deuteronomy 7:9
****** Just my interpretation of my situation*****
It’s 2009 and I am working on me, I hope something good came from my BLOG, if nothing more than to get you to think about love and how important it is to your life. We have to make ourselves happy, we can’t wait on someone or something to do it for us, God has given us everything we need to achieve, if we seek him, we will find the answers to all things unseen.
Peace and Blessings
